Monday, 23 January 2012

Patience is renewable virtue

It's been a while since our last post, time flies when you are having fun (or your nerves tested) I guess. Anyhow this post is long overdue, so apologies for that.

Living in a place that's so different from all the other places we've ever lived is sometimes testing, there's a lot of good but also things that'll test your patience. Luckily even a short break of normalcy in life can help restore your patience, but it is easy to become impatient and short tempered. Here are a few examples of what I mean.

After months of power outages without power back-up, we finally got a generator about a week ago. I though the commissioning would be a simple and quick task, but it ended up taking several days. The generator house is next to the pool, and they had to bring the cables from there to the main fuse box. As the cable's are thick, they had to chip away part of the perimeter wall fences that was just fixed after the landslide took part of it away. Needless to say, the fence now looks quite awful. Also, no one had the manual nor was really able to explain to me how it works. It's not rocket science, but I hope I know how to operate it just by studying it. We had a power outage today, and hooray the generator started automatically. shortly after that the generator stopped working, and it turned out that while commissioning it they didn't fill the radiator and the generator overheated. Luckily this was easy to fix, but hopefully they didn't make any other shortcuts.

We also found out a short a few weeks ago that our househelp Emily is pregnant. We agreed that her sister would fill in while she takes a well deserved break and nurses the newborn to a good start. They were supposed to come together today so that she can teach her sister on what to do. Of course she had the baby over the weekend, and we found ourselves starting with a new person from scratch. You'd think having someone clean the house for you is a relief, but our ways or keeping the house is not necessarily universal. Dishes are washed using table cloth, shirts are ironed inside out and beds are made so that duved is on top of the cover etc. When Emily started she had never seen a vacuum cleaner before, we told her what to do with it and the next day we find her happily vacuuming the drive way to the house with it. I guess we should have been explicit that it is for inside use only.

Our house has practically been a construction zone since we moved in in August. It is great that the landlord is investing in the house, and many things are much better than they used to be. The garden for example is now quite beautiful, and the new wall much higher than before. What has been frustrating though that everything is done 2-3 times, sometimes because it didn't go right the first time and sometimes because there's no planning what so ever. You also usually have several people working in your yard, and they never tell you what's going on or when the project is expected to be ready. Last week Taru was doing something in the kitchen to realise that 3 men are staring at her through the window. Instead of knocking on the door and asking for the plastic bags they needed, they waited until she noticed them. Needless to say this felt a bit creepy, and this kind of behavior does not really encourage you to use the pool for example as it is sure they will all stare at you while you try to enjoy a quick dip in the pool during a hot day.

Shopping is not always dancing on roses either. We've already learned to buy while it's there as you never know what shortage might hit the stores next, and sometimes it takes months to restock certain items. More frustrating is the quality of food. This week we bought beans to make chili, and at home when we were rinsing them realised that instead of beans we got a bag of bugs. Well, it was beans but a colony of small bugs lived in the bag and every bean seemed to have an occupant. Discusting. Also, often when buying cheese or similar it is moldy even if the best before date is well into the future. I guess this is due to the handling and transportation issues, but it's hard to find a good quality items consistently.

I could go on for a long time, but I guess this is enough venting for now. All this is testing our patience on a regular basis, but luckily it is a renewable virtue and a few weeks of enjoying our house without constant work and no new setbacks will help restore it I'm sure.
TIA I guess, we just have to learn to like it as it is.

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